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+ First Readings

A reading from the book of Exodus (23:20-23)

The Lord says this: 'I myself will send an angel before you to guard you as you go and bring you to the place that I have prepared. Give him reverence and listen to all that he says. Offer him no defiance; he would not pardon such a fault, for My name is in him. If you listen carefully to his voice and do all that I say, I shall be enemy to your enemies, foe to your foes. My angel will go before you.'

The word of the Lord.

A reading from the second book of Maccabees (12:43-45)

Judas, the leader of the Jews, took a collection from the people individually, amounting to nearly two thousand drachmae, and sent it to Jerusalem to have a sacrifice for sin offered, an altogether fine and noble action, in which he took full account of the resurrection. For if he had not expected the fallen to rise again it would have been superfluous and foolish to pray for the dead, whereas if he had in view the splendid recompense reserved for those who make a pious end, the thought was holy and devout. This was why he had this atonement sacrifice offered for the dead, so that they might be released from their sin.

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A reading from the book of Job (19:1, 23-27)

Job said: ‘Ah, would that these Words of mine were written down, inscribed on some monument with iron chisel and engraving tool, cut into the rock for ever. This I know: that my Avenger lives, and he, the Last, will take his stand on earth. After my awaking, he will set me close to him, and from my flesh I shall look on God. He whom I shall see will take my part: these eyes will gaze on him and find him aloof’

The word of the Lord.

A reading from the book of Wisdom (3:1-9)

The souls of the virtuous are in the hands of God, no torment shall ever touch them. In the eyes of the unwise, they did appear to die, their going looked like a disaster, their leaving us, like annihilation; but they are in peace. If they experienced punishment as men see it, their hope was rich with immortality; slight was their affliction; great will their blessings be. God has put them to the test and proved them worthy to be with him; He has tested them like gold in a furnace, and accepted them as a holocaust. When the time comes for his visitation, they will shine out; as sparks run through the stubble, so will they. They shall judge nations, rule over peoples, and the Lord will be their king for ever. They who trust in Him will understand the truth, those who are faithful will live with him in love; for grace and mercy await those he has chosen.

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A reading from the book of Wisdom (4:7-15)

The virtuous man, though he die before his time, will find rest. Length of days is not what makes age honourable, nor number of years the true measure of life; understanding, this is man’s grey hairs, untarnished life, this is ripe old age. He has sought to please God, so God has loved him; as he was living among sinners, he has been taken up. He has been carried off so that evil may not warp his understanding or treachery seduce his soul; for the fascination of evil throws good things into the shade, and the whirlwind of desire corrupts a simple heart. Coming to perfection in so short a while, he achieved long life; his soul being pleasing to the Lord, he has taken him quickly from the wickedness around him. Yet people look on, uncomprehending; it does not enter their heads that grace and mercy await the chosen of the Lord, and protection, his holy ones.

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A reading from the prophet Isaiah (25:6-9)

On this mountain, the Lord of hosts will prepare for all peoples a banquet of rich food. On this mountain He will remove the mourning veil covering all peoples, and the shroud enwrapping all nations, he will destroy Death for ever. The Lord will wipe away the tears from every cheek; he will take away His people’s shame everywhere on earth, for the Lord has said so. That day, it will be said: See, this is our God in whom we hoped for salvation; the Lord is the one in whom we hoped. We exult and we rejoice that He has saved us.

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A reading from the book of Lamentations (3:17-26)

My soul is shut out from peace; I have forgotten happiness. And now I say, ‘My strength is gone, that hope which came from the Lord’. Brooding on my anguish and affliction is gall and wormwood. My spirit ponders it continually and sinks within me. This is what I shall tell my heart, and so recover hope: the favours of the Lord are not all past, His kindnesses are not exhausted; every morning they are renewed; great is his faithfulness. ‘My portion is the Lord’ says my soul ‘and so I will hope in Him.’ The Lord is good to those who trust Him, to the soul that searches for Him. It is good to wait in silence for the Lord to save.

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A reading from the prophet Daniel (12:1-3)

I, Daniel, was doing penance when I received this message from the Lord: ‘At that time Michael will stand up, the great prince who mounts guard over your people. There is going to be a time of great distress, unparalleled since nations first came into existence. When that time comes, your own people will be spared, all those whose names are found written in the Book. Of those who lie sleeping in the dust of the earth many will awake, some to everlasting life, some to shame and everlasting disgrace. The learned will shine as brightly as the vault of heaven, and those who have instructed many in virtue, as bright as stars for all eternity.’

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A reading from the Acts of the Apostles (10:34-43)

Peter addressed Cornelius and his household: ‘The truth I have now come to realise,’ he said, ‘is that God does not have favourites, but that anybody of any nationality who fears God and does what is right is acceptable to him. ‘It is true, God sent his Word to the people of Israel, and it was to them that the good news of peace was brought by Jesus Christ – but Jesus Christ is Lord of all men. You must have heard about the recent happenings in Judaea; about Jesus of Nazareth and how He began in Galilee, after John had been preaching baptism. God had anointed Him with the Holy Spirit and with power, and because God was with him, Jesus went about doing good and curing all who had fallen into the power of the devil. Now I, and those with me, can witness to everything He did throughout the countryside of Judaea and in Jerusalem itself: and also to the fact that they killed Him by hanging Him on a tree, yet three days afterwards God raised Him to life and allowed Him to be seen, not by the whole people but only by certain witnesses God had chosen beforehand. Now we are those witnesses – we have eaten and drunk with Him after His resurrection from the dead – and He has ordered us to proclaim this to His people and to tell them that God has appointed Him to judge everyone alive or dead. It is to Him that all the prophets bear witness: that all who believe in Jesus will have their sins forgiven through his name.’

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A reading from the book of the Apocalypse (14:13)

I, John, heard a voice from heaven say to me, ‘Write down: Happy are those who die in the Lord! Happy indeed, the Spirit says; now they can rest for ever after their work, since their good deeds go with them.’

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A reading from the book of the Apocalypse (20:11-21:1)

I, John, saw a great white throne and the One who was sitting on it. In his presence, earth and sky vanished, leaving no trace. I saw the dead, both great and small, standing in front of His throne, while the book of life was opened, and the other books which were the record of what they had done in their lives, by which the dead were judged. The sea gave up all the dead who were in it; Death and Hades were emptied of the dead that were in them; and every one was judged according to the way in which he had lived. Then Death and Hades were thrown into the burning lake. This burning lake is the second death; and anybody whose name could not be found written in the book of life was thrown into the burning lake. Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth; the first heaven and the first earth had disappeared now, and there was no longer any sea.

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A reading from the book of Apocalypse (21:1-7)

I, John, saw a new heaven and a new earth; the first heaven and the first earth had disappeared now, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the holy city, and the new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, as beautiful as a bride all dressed for her husband. Then I heard a loud voice call from the throne, ‘You see this city? Here God lives among men. He will make his home among them; they shall be his people, and he will be their God; his name is God-with-them. He will wipe away all tears from their eyes; there will be no more death, and no more mourning or sadness. The world of the past has gone.’ Then the One sitting on the throne spoke: ‘Now I am making the whole of creation new,’ He said. ‘I will give water from the well of life free to anybody who is thirsty; it is the rightful inheritance of the one who proves victorious; and I will be His God and He a son to me.’

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+ Responsorial Psalms

Psalm 22

Response: The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want.

The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want. Fresh and green are the pastures where he gives me repose. Near restful waters He leads me, to revive my drooping spirit. R.

He guides me along the right path; He is true to His name. If I should walk in the valley of darkness no evil would I fear. You are there with your crook and your staff; with these you give me comfort. R.

You have prepared a banquet for me in the sight of my foes. My head you have anointed with oil; my cup is overflowing. R.

Surely goodness and kindness shall follow me all the days of my life. In the Lord’s own house shall I dwell for ever and ever. R.

Psalm 24

Response: To you, O Lord, I lift up my soul.

Lord, make me know your ways. Lord, teach me your paths. Make me walk in your truth and teach me. For you are God my Saviour. R.

Remember your mercy, Lord, And the love you have shown from of old. In your love remember me, Because of your goodness, O Lord. R.

Relieve the anguish of my heart And set me free from my distress. Preserve my life and rescue me. Do not disappoint me, you are my refuge. R.

Psalm 26

Response: The Lord is my light and my help.

The Lord is my light and my help; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; before whom shall I shrink? R.

There is one thing I ask of the Lord, for this I long, to live in the house of the Lord, all the days of my life, to savour the sweetness of the Lord, to behold His temple. R.

O Lord, hear my voice when I call; have mercy and answer. It is your face, O Lord, that I seek; hide not your face. R.

I am sure I shall see the Lord’s goodness in the land of the living. Hope in Him, hold firm and take heart. Hope in the Lord! R.

Psalm 41

Response: My soul is thirsting for God, The God of my life.

Like the deer that yearns For running streams, So my soul is yearning, for you, my God. R.

My soul is thirsting for God, The God of my life; When can I enter and see The face of God? R.

And I will come to the altar of God, The God of my joy. My redeemer, I will thank you on the harp, O God, my God. R.

Why are you cast down, my soul, Why groan within me? Hope in God; I will praise Him still, My Saviour and my God. R.

Psalm 62

Response: For you my soul is thirsting, O Lord, my God.

O God, you are my God, for you I long; for you my soul is thirsting. My body pines for you like a dry, weary land without water. R.

So I gaze on you in the sanctuary to see your strength and your glory. For your love is better than life, my lips will speak your praise. R.

So I will bless you all my life, in your name I will lift up my hands. My soul shall be filled as with a banquet, my mouth shall praise you with joy. R.

You have been my help; in the shadow of your wings I rejoice. My soul clings to you; your right hand holds me fast. R.

Psalm 102

Response: The Lord is compassion and love.

The Lord is compassion and love, slow to anger and rich in mercy. He does not treat us according to our sins nor repay us according to our faults. R.

As a father has compassion on his son, the Lord has pity on those who fear him; for He knows of what we are made, he remembers that we are dust. R.

As for man, his days are like grass; he flowers like the flowers of the field; the wind blows and he is gone and his place never sees him again. R.

But the love of the Lord is everlasting upon those who hold him in fear; his justice reaches out to children’s children when they keep his covenant in truth. R.

Psalm 114/115

Response: I will walk in the presence of the Lord in the land of the living.

How gracious is the Lord, and just; our God has compassion. The Lord protects the simple hearts; I was helpless so he saved me. R.

I trusted, even when I said: ‘I am sorely afflicted,’ and when I said in my alarm: ‘No man can be trusted.’ R.

O precious in the eyes of the Lord is the death of his faithful. Your servant, Lord, your servant am I; you have loosened my bonds. R.

Psalm 120

Response: Our help is in the name of the Lord, who made heaven and earth.

I lift up mine eyes to the mountains: from where shall come my help? My help shall come from the Lord who made heaven and earth. R.

May He never allow you to stumble! Let him sleep not, your guard. No, He sleeps not nor slumbers, Israel’s guard. R.

The Lord is your guard and your shade; at your right side He stands. By day the sun shall not smite you nor the moon in the night. R.

The Lord will guard you from evil, He will guard your soul. The Lord will guard your going and coming both now and for ever. R.

Psalm 121

Response: I rejoiced when I heard them say: ‘Let us go to God’s house.’.

I rejoiced when I heard them say: ‘Let us go to God’s house.’ And now our feet are standing within your gates, O Jerusalem. R.

Jerusalem is built as a city strongly compact. It is there that the tribes go up, the tribes of the Lord. R.

For Israel’s law it is, there to praise the Lord’s name. There were set the thrones of judgement of the house of David. R.

For love of my brethren and friends I say: ‘Peace upon you!’ For love of the house of the Lord I will ask for your good. R.

Psalm 129

Response: Out of the depths, I cry to you, O Lord.

Out of the depths, I cry to you, O Lord, Lord, hear my voice! O let your ears be attentive to the voice of my pleading. R.

If you, O Lord, should mark our guilt, Lord, who would survive? But with you is found forgiveness: for this we revere you. R.

My soul is waiting for the Lord, I count on his Word. My soul is longing for the Lord more than watchman for daybreak. R.

Because with the Lord there is mercy and fullness of redemption, Israel indeed He will redeem from all its iniquity. R.

Psalm 142

Response: Lord, listen to my prayer.

Lord, listen to my prayer: turn your ear to my appeal. You are faithful, you are just; give answer. Do not call your servant to judgement for no one is just in your sight. R.

I remember the days that are past: I ponder all your works. I muse on what your hand has wrought and to you I stretch out my hands. Like a parched land my soul thirsts for you. R.

Lord, make haste and give me answer: for my spirit fails within me. In the morning let me know your love for I put my trust in you. R.

Teach me to do your will for you, O Lord, are my God. Let your good spirit guide me in ways that are level and smooth. R.

+ Second Readings

A reading from the letter of St Paul to the Romans (5:5-11)

Hope is not deceptive, because the love of God has been poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit which has been given us. We were still helpless when at His appointed moment Christ died for sinful men. It is not easy to die even for a good man – though of course for someone really worthy, a man might be prepared to die – but what proves that God loves us is that Christ died for us while we were still sinners. Having died to make us righteous, is it likely that He would now fail to save us from God’s anger? When we were reconciled to God by the death of His Son, we were still enemies; now that we have been reconciled, surely we may count on being saved by the life of His Son? Not merely because we have been reconciled but because we are filled with joyful trust in God, through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have already gained our reconciliation.

The word of the Lord.

A reading from the letter of St Paul to the Romans (5:17-21)

If it is certain that death reigned over everyone as the consequence of one man’s fall, it is even more certain that one man, Jesus Christ, will cause everyone to reign in life who receives the free gift that he does not deserve, of being made righteous. Again, as one man’s fall brought condemnation on everyone, so the good act of one man brings everyone life and makes them justified. As by one man’s disobedience many were made sinners, so by one man’s obedience many will be made righteous. When law came, it was to multiply the opportunities of falling, but however great the number of sins committed, grace was even greater; and so, just as sin reigned wherever there was death, so grace will reign to bring eternal life thanks to the righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ our Lord.

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A reading from the letter of St Paul to the Romans (6:3-9)

When we were baptised in Christ Jesus we were baptised in his death; in other Words, when we were baptised we went into the tomb with him and joined him in death, so that as Christ was raised from the dead by the Father’s glory, we too might live a new life. If in union with Christ we have imitated his death, we shall also imitate him in his resurrection. We must realise that our former selves have been crucified with him to destroy this sinful body and to free us from the slavery of sin. When a man dies, of course, he has finished with sin. But we believe that having died with Christ we shall return to life with him; Christ, as we know, having been raised from the dead will never die again. Death has no power over him anymore.

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A reading from the letter of St Paul to the Romans (8:14-23)

Everyone moved by the Spirit is a son of God. The spirit you received is not the spirit of slaves bringing fear into your lives again; it is the spirit of sons, and it makes us cry out, ‘Abba, Father!’ The Spirit himself and our spirit bear united witness that we are children of God. And if we are children we are heirs as well: heirs of God and coheirs with Christ, sharing his sufferings so as to share his glory. I think that what we suffer in this life can never be compared to the glory, as yet unrevealed, which is waiting for us. The whole creation is eagerly waiting for God to reveal his sons. It was not for any fault on the part of creation that it was made unable to attain its purpose, it was made so by God; but creation still retains the hope of being freed, like us, from its slavery to decadence, to enjoy the same freedom and glory as the children of God. From the beginning till now the entire creation, as we know, has been groaning in one great act of giving birth; and not only creation, but all of us who possess the first-fruits of the Spirit, we too groan inwardly as we wait for our bodies to be set free.

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A reading from the letter of St Paul to the Romans (8:31-35, 37-39)

With God on our side who can be against us? Since God did not spare his own Son, but gave him up to benefit us all, we may be certain, after such a gift, that he will not refuse anything he can give. Could anyone accuse those that God has chosen? When God acquits, could anyone condemn? Could Christ Jesus? No! He not only died for us – he rose from the dead, and there at God’s right hand he stands and pleads for us. Nothing therefore can come between us and the love of Christ, even if we are troubled or worried, or being persecuted, or lacking food or clothes, or being threatened or even attacked. These are trials through which we triumph, by the power of him who loved us. For I am certain of this: neither death nor life, no angel, no prince, nothing that exists, nothing still to come, not any power, or height or depth, not any created thing, can ever come between us and the love of God made visible in Christ Jesus our Lord.

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A reading from the letter of St Paul to the Romans (14:7-12)

The life and death of each of us has its influence on others; if we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord, so that alive or dead we belong to the Lord. This explains why Christ both died and came to life, it was so that he might be Lord both of the dead and of the living. We shall all have to stand before the judgement seat of God; as scripture says: By my life – it is the Lord who speaks – every knee shall bend before me, and every tongue shall praise God. It is to God, therefore, that each of us must give an account of himself.

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A reading from the first letter of St Paul to the Corinthians (15:20-28)

Christ has been raised from the dead, the first fruits of all who have fallen asleep. Death came through one man and in the same way the resurrection of the dead has come through one man. Just as all men die in Adam, so all men will be brought to life in Christ; but all of them in their proper order; Christ as the first fruits and then, after the coming of Christ, those who belong to him. After that will come the end, when he hands over the kingdom of God the Father. For he must be king until he has put all his enemies under his feet and the last of the enemies to be destroyed is death, for everything is to be put under his feet. – Though when it is said that everything is subjected, this clearly cannot include the One who subjected everything to him. And when everything is subjected to him, then the Son himself will be subject in his turn to the One who subjected all things to him, so that God may be all in all.

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A reading from the first letter of St Paul to the Corinthians (15:51-57)

I will tell you something that has been secret: that we are not all going to die, but we shall all be changed. This will be instantaneous, in the twinkling of an eye, when the last trumpet sounds. It will sound, and the dead will be raised, imperishable, and we shall be changed as well, because our present perishable nature must put on imperishability and this mortal nature must put on immortality. When this perishable nature has put on imperishability, and when this mortal nature has put on immortality, then the Words of scripture will come true: Death is swallowed up in victory. Death, where is your victory? Death, where is your sting? Now the sting of death is sin, and sin gets its power from the Law. So let us thank God for giving us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

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A reading from the second letter of St Paul to the Corinthians (4:14-5:1)

We know that he who raised the Lord Jesus to life will raise us with Jesus in our turn, and put us by his side and you with us. You see, all this is for your benefit, so that the more grace is multiplied among people, the more thanksgiving there will be, to the glory of God. That is why there is no weakening on our part, and instead, though this outer man of ours may be falling into decay, the inner man is renewed day by day. Yes, the troubles which are soon over, though they weigh little, train us for the carrying of a weight of eternal glory which is out of all proportion to them. And so, we have no eyes for things that are visible, but only for things that are invisible; for visible things last only for a time, and the invisible things are eternal. For we know that when the tent that we live in on earth is folded up, there is a house built by God for us, an everlasting home not made by human hands, in the heavens.

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A reading from the second letter of St Paul to the Corinthians (5:1, 6-10)

We know that when the tent that we live in on earth is folded up, there is a house built by God for us, an everlasting home not made by human hands, in the heavens. We are always full of confidence, then, when we remember that to live in the body means to be exiled from the Lord, going as we do by faith and not by sight — we are full of confidence, I say, and actually want to be exiled from the body and make our home with the Lord. Whether we are living in the body or exiled from it, we are intent on pleasing him. For all the truth about us will be brought out in the law court of Christ, and each of us will get what he deserves for the things he did in the body, good or bad.

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A reading from the letter of St Paul to the Philippians (3:20-21)

For us, our homeland is in heaven, and from heaven comes the Saviour we are waiting for, the Lord Jesus Christ, and he will transfigure these wretched bodies of ours into copies of his glorious body. He will do that by the same power with which he can subdue the whole universe.

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A reading from the first letter of St Paul to the Thessalonians (4:13-18)

We want you to be quite certain, brothers, about those who have died, to make sure that you do not grieve about them, like the other people who have no hope. We believe that Jesus died and rose again, and that it will be the same for those who have died in Jesus: God will bring them with him. We can tell you this from the Lord’s own teaching, that any of us who are left alive until the Lord’s coming will not have any advantage over those who have died. At the trumpet of God, the voice of the archangel will call out the command and the Lord himself will come down from heaven; those who have died in Christ will be the first to rise, and then those of us who are still alive will be taken up in the clouds, together with them, to meet the Lord in the air. So we shall stay with the Lord forever. With such thoughts as these you should comfort one another.

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A reading from the second letter of St Paul to Timothy (4:6-8)

My life is already being poured away as a libation, and the time has come for me to be gone. I have fought the good fight to the end; I have run the race to the finish; I have kept the faith. All there is to come for me now is the Crown of Righteousness reserved for me, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will give me on that Day; and not only to me but to all those who have longed for His appearing.

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A reading from the second letter of St Paul to Timothy (2:8-13)

Remember the Good News that I carry, ‘Jesus Christ risen from the dead, sprung from the race of David’; it is on account of this that I have my own hardships to bear, even to being chained like a criminal — but they cannot chain up God’s news. So, I bear it all for the sake of those who are chosen so that in the end they may have the salvation that is in Christ Jesus and the eternal glory that comes with it. Here is a saying that you can rely on: If we have died with him, then we shall live with him. If we hold firm, then we shall reign with him. If we disown him, then he will disown us. We may be unfaithful, but he is always faithful, for he cannot disown his own self.

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A reading from the first letter of St John (3:1-2)

Think of the love that the Father has lavished on us by letting us be called God’s children; and that is what we are. Because the world refused to acknowledge Him, therefore it does not acknowledge us. My dear people, we are already the children of God but what we are to be in the future has not yet been revealed; all we know is, that when it is revealed we shall be like Him because we shall see Him as He really is.

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A reading from the first letter of St John (3:14-16)

We have passed out of death and into life, and of this we can be sure because we love our brothers. If you refuse to love, you must remain dead; to hate your brother is to be a murderer, and murderers, as you know, do not have eternal life in them. This has taught us love — that He gave up His life for us; and we, too, ought to give up our lives for our brothers.

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+ Prayers of the Faithful

Choose up to five prayers from the list below; they may be combined in any way you wish. N. stands for the name of your loved one, and he/she and his/her will be adjusted to suit. The celebrant reads the introduction and the closing prayer. After each prayer the response is: Lord, hear us. — Lord, graciously hear us.

1. We pray for N. and all those who also have died in Christ. May Christ now be their light, their joy, their consolation in the glory and peace of Heaven. God is full of mercy and compassion. May He forgive N. any sins he/she committed through human frailty.

2. For our sorrowing family, relatives and friends of N. that they may find strength and consolation in their faith and in the love and support of the community. God of all consolation, help us to comfort one another in our grief, finding light in time of darkness, and faith in time of doubt.

3. We pray for all who are critically ill, and for all who care for them. Give them peace in their hearts and the hope to see you in glory forever.

4. For our departed relatives, for N. friends and all who were close to us in this life. Lord, give them the reward of their goodness.

5. May the prayers of Mary, the Mother of God, who stood by the cross as her son was dying, help those who mourn and be with all of us in our time of need. For all who have gathered here to worship in faith that we may be reunited one day with all whom we love, when every tear will be wiped away.

6. In baptism N. was given the pledge of eternal life. May he/she now be admitted to the company of the saints.

7. For N. that Christ may have mercy on his/her soul, and grant him/her full pardon for his/her sins.

8. For the family of N. that in these difficult and dark days they may be sustained by their faith, and by the knowledge that they will be reunited with N. one day in God's heavenly kingdom.

9. For all the faithful departed: that they may see God face to face in the kingdom of heaven.

10. The gift of life, which we all share, is very precious. Lord, make us more aware of the gifts and talents that you have given us, particularly those that we so often take for granted. May we use them to make the world a better place.

11. For all of us gathered here: that we may remember at all times, but especially at times of trouble and anxiety, that we are loved by God and that he will take care of us.

12. We pray for all nurses and carers, particularly those who were so good to N. in the last months of his/her life.

13. In Baptism N. received the light of Christ. Scatter the darkness now and lead him/her over the waters of death

14. Our brother/sister N. was nourished at the table of the savior. Welcome him/her into the halls of the heavenly banquet.

15. Many friends and members of our families have gone before us and await the kingdom. Grant them an everlasting home with your Son.

16. Many people die by violence, war, and famine each day. Show your mercy to those who suffer so unjustly these sins against your love, and gather them to the eternal kingdom of peace.

17. Those who trusted in the Lord now sleep in the Lord. Give refreshment, rest, and peace to all whose faith is known to You alone.

18. The family and friends of N. seek comfort and consolation. Heal their pain and dispel the darkness and doubt that comes from grief.

19. We are assembled here in faith and confidence to pray for our brother/sister N.. strengthen our hope so that we may live in the expectation of your Son’s coming

20. For N. who in baptism was given the pledge of eternal life, that he/she may now be admitted to the company of the saints.

21. For our brother/sister who ate the body of Christ, the bread of life, that he/she may be raised up on the last day.

22. For our deceased relatives and friends and for all who have helped us, that they may have the reward of their goodness.

23. For doctors, nurses and carers, particularly those who were so good to N. in the last months of his/her life. May they have kind hearts and gentle hands.

24. For the family and friends of our brother/sister N., that they may be consoled in their grief by the Lord who wept at the death of his friend Lazarus

25. For all here present, that Christ may open our ears and hearts to receive His love and the Good News of salvation.

+ Hymns and Song Examples

The parish music list, by part of the Mass. Numbers in brackets are the hymnal references used by the parish.

Entrance Hymns

  • Be not afraid (L964)
  • Be thou my vision (L969)
  • Christ be beside me (L910)
  • Do not be afraid (L972)
  • Eternal rest grant to them, O Lord
  • I will come to you in the silence (L 776)
  • I will never forget you, my people (L796)
  • Keep in Mind (L773)
  • Unless a grain of wheat shall fall (L748)
  • We Will Want No More (T.Kendzia)
  • When I survey the wondrous cross (L756)

Preparation of the Gifts (Offertory)

  • Ag Críost an síol (L737)
  • Be still and know that I am God (L909)
  • Beatitudes
  • Dona Nobis Pacem
  • God be in my head (L914)
  • From heaven you came (L749)
  • I watch the sunrise (L956)
  • Jesus heal us (L436)
  • O the love of my Lord is the essence (L967)

Communion Hymns

  • Be still, for the presence of the Lord (L720)
  • Bread for the world (L625)
  • Christ is alive, with joy we sing (L270)
  • Eat this bread, drink this cup (L633)
  • Holy gifts for holy people (L613)
  • How great thou art (L721)
  • I am the bread of life (L629)
  • I have loved you (L775)
  • I heard the voice of Jesus say (L795)
  • Jesus remember me (L253)
  • Nothing can trouble (L947)
  • One bread we break (L626)
  • O God you search me (L779)
  • Shepherd me O God (L951)
  • Stand by Me (T.Kendzia)
  • Taste and See (T.Kendzia)
  • The Clouds’ Veil (C124)
  • The Lord’s my shepherd (L806)
  • The Servant Song (R. Gillard)
  • We have been told (L859)

Post Communion / Reflection (when a cantor is available)

  • Irish Blessing (B. Chilcott)
  • In Paradisum (Requiem by Faure)
  • Pie Jesu (Requiem by Faure)
  • The Deer’s Cry (C126)
  • St. Patrick’s Prayer (T.Rafferty)

Final (Recessional) Hymns

  • Abide with me (L907)
  • Be not afraid (L964)
  • Christ be our Light (L883)
  • Come and Go with Me (T.Kendzia)
  • Day is done, but Love unfailing (L678)
  • In Paradisum (L442)
  • Make me a Channel of your Peace (L898)
  • May the choirs of angels come to greet you (L443)
  • May God the father look on you with love (L445 V1)
  • May flights of angles lead you on your way (L445 V2)
  • O Lord, my God (How great thou art) (L721)
  • You who dwell in the shelter of the Lord (On eagle’s wings) (L952)

+ Text for Rear of Doscard

Doscard Poems

When You Feel Lonely

When You feel Lonely
When a person you love passes away
Look to the night sky on a clear day.
The star that to you, appears to be bright,
Will be your loved one,Looking upon you during the night.
The lights of heaven are what shows through
As your loved one watches all that you do.
When you feel lonely for the one that you love,
Look to the Heavens in the night sky above.

I Did Not Die

Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain,
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

I Heard Your Voice In The Wind Today

I heard your voice in the wind today
and I turned to see your face;
The warmth of the wind caressed me
as I stood silently in place.
I felt your touch in the sun today
as its warmth filled the sky;
I closed my eyes for your embrace
and my spirit soared high.
I saw your eyes in the window pane
as I watched the falling rain;
It seemed as each raindrop fell
it quietly said your name.
I held you close in my heart today
it made me feel complete;
You may have died…but you are not gone
you will always be a part of me.
As long as the sun shines…
the wind blows…
the rain falls…
You will live on inside of me forever

I Thought Of You Today

I thought of you with love today but that is nothing new
I thought about you yesterday and days before that too,
I think of you in silence I often speak your name
All I have are memories and your picture in a frame
Your memory is my keepsake with which I’ll never part
God has you in His keeping I have you in my heart.

A Million Times

You never said I’m leaving
You never said good-bye
You were gone before I knew it
And only God knew why
A million times we’ve needed you,
A million times we’ve cried.
If love alone could’ve saved you,
You never would have died.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.
In our hearts you hold a place,
No one else will ever fill.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you didn’t go alone.
Part of us went with you,
The day God took you home

I’m Going To Tell You Something

I’m going to tell you something,
I hope you’ll never have to know.
Ill tell you how a heart can break
and tears can constant flow.
I lost my baby girl you see
an angel in my eyes
The lord reached right down, took her hand
and led her to the skies.
Please don’t ever tell me,
that time will heal my pain
because not even time,
will bring her back again.
Please do not forget my child,
she was a person too,
forever she will live,
inside of me and you.
Just tell me that’s she’s happy,
in that land way up above,
she’s snuggled in an angels wings
wrapped in mummy & daddy’s love.

Doscard Prayers

Memorare

Remember O most gracious Virgin Mary,  that never was it known that anyone who fled to Thy protection, implored Thy help, or sought Thy intercession was left unaided.   Inspired with this confidence, I fly unto Thee, O Virgin of Virgins. My Mother!  To Thee I come, before Thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. Oh Mother of the Word incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in Thy mercy, hear and answer me. Amen.   Hail Mary

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

The Lord's Prayer

Our Father, who art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.

O’Gentlest Heart   O gentlest heart of Jesus, Ever present in the Blessed Sacrament, Ever consumed with burning love For the poor captive souls, Have mercy on the soul of thy departed servant. Be not sever in Thy judgment But let some drops of Thy Precious Blood Fall upon the devouring flames, And do Thou O Merciful Saviour, Send Thy angels to conduct thy departed servant To a place of refreshment, Light and peace. Amen

Resurrection Prayer

Most merciful Father, we commend our departed into your hands. We are filled with the sure hope that our departed will rise again on the Last Day with all who have died in Christ.  We thank you for all the good things you have given during our departed's earthly life. O Father, in your great mercy, accept our prayer that the Gates of Paradise may be opened for your servant. In our turn, may we too be comforted by the words of faith until we greet Christ in glory and are united with you and our departed. Through Christ our Lord, Amen.  

We Give Them Back

We give them back to you, O Lord, who first gave them to us; yet as you did not lose them in the giving, so we do not lose them by their return . . . For what is yours is ours also, if we belong to you. Love is unending, and the boundary of this mortal life is but a horizon, and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. Lift us up, strong Son of God, that we may see more clearly . . . And while you prepare a place for us, prepare us also for that happy place, that we may be with you and with those we loved for evermore.

Hail, Holy Queen

Hail, holy Queen, Mother of mercy,
hail, our life, our sweetness, and our hope.
To you we cry, the children of Eve;
to you we send up our sighs,
mourning and weeping in this land of exile.
Turn, then, most gracious advocate,
your eyes of mercy toward us;
lead us home at last
and show us the blessed fruit of your womb, Jesus:
O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.

St. Michael the Archangel

Defend us in battle. Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil; May God rebuke him, we humbly pray; And do thou, O Prince of the heavenly house, By the power of God, thrust into hell Satan and all evil spirits Who wander through the world for the ruin of souls. Amen.

Doscard Bible Verses

The Beatitudes

Blessed are the poor in spirit, For theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are they that mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the land. Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness,  for they will be satisfied. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the clean of heart,  For they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, For they will be called children of God. Blessed  are those who are persecuted, for the sake of righteousness, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven. Matthew 5:3-10

Psalm 84

  How dear to me is your dwelling place, O Lord of Hosts! My soul hath a desire and longing for the Courts of the Lord; My heart and my flesh rejoice in the living God.  The sparrow has found her a house And the swallow a nest where she may lay her young; by the side of your altars, O Lord of hosts, my King and my God. Happy are they who dwell in your 

Psalm 121   I will lift mine eyes unto the hills from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord,  which made heaven and earth.  He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not  slumber nor sleep. The Lord is thy keeper:  the Lord is thy shade upon thy hand.  The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil;  He shall preserve thy soul.  The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.

John 14:1-3

Let not your hearts be troubled; believe in God, believe also in me.  In my Father’s house are many rooms;  if it were not so, would I have told you that I go and prepare a place for you? And when I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also

Psalm 23

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.  He maketh me to lie down in green pastures; he leadeth me beside still waters.  He restoreth my soul; he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for His name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of  death, I will fear no evil; for thou art with me. Thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.  Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies; thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me  all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

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